It’s not desire that separates the few winners from the many losers, it’s the actions.
“Fundamentally, all people want the same thing: To Win.
However, we have a lot more losers than winners because not everybody wants to do what winning asks for.
Losers talk about the problems and the winners.
Winners create the solutions and then do the required work to win.”
-Ray Zingler on Twitter
I don’t think anybody wakes up, looks themselves in the mirror and tells themselves they want to lose.
I firmly believe that the vast majority of people want to win. I don’t think many people lack positive desires.
But if this is the case, why are there far more losers than winners?
It’s because winning comes with a catch. It asks for something in return, every single time.
And despite desiring to win, many folks are unwilling to do what winning asks for.
So, they lose.
And often they continue to lose because instead of adjusting their actions to meet winning where it needs to be met, they feel sorry for themselves, become entitled, and blame the “system” for being unfair.
If you want to leave no doubt that you carry the losers crown, feel sorry for yourself and blame the system. You will achieve and maintain loser-ship with 100% effectiveness.
I’m not saying the system is perfect, of course it’s broken, but that’s the whole point.
To complain and blame common knowledge and fundamental truths as reasons for your lack of success is like walking up to a dog with a ‘Do Not Pet’ collar on, attempting to pet him, and then blaming the dog when you get bit.
I mean is that not the craziest damn thinking in the world? But, again human beings think and act like this every day.
You know the system is broken. You know the game is played on an unlevel playing field. You know it’s rigged for you to lose.
So, what? Just funnel yourself onto the conveyor-belt headed to loser town, anyway?
Or be self-aware and understand your effort and strategies need to adjust and accommodate for the brokenness that the loser complains of?
That is the way and that is why winning is so damn easy in today’s world.
You have to understand, most people are robots. The “system” got them and the matrix has too strong of a hold on them for them to auto-regulate and adjust course.
Reason and logic is out the window for them.
So what does that mean for you if you use reason and logic to guide your efforts?
If you guessed a whole hell of a lot of winning, you’d have guessed right.